Ten Questions to Consider As You Explore Adoption
For group discussion
- What are my biggest fears regarding adoption?
- Do/will my close family and friends support my decision to adopt? If not, why?
- How do I define the concept of family? In other words, what is a family?
- What personal experience(s) do I have regarding adoption – whether positive or negative?
- Does adoption seem “normal” to me?
- What have I done thus far to educate myself about adoption and what are the next steps I should take to gain more education?
For continued discussion with your family:
- Have we prayed and asked for God's wisdom about building our family? If not why?
- What, if anything, do I feel that I would lose or be “giving up” if I choose to adopt?
- Why do/would I want to adopt?
- Have I explored the realities of having a child that may never look exactly like me or my spouse? Why or why not?
- How do I feel about birthparents (i.e.,the biological parents of children who are adopted)
- If married, does my spouse have the same ideas about adoption that I do?
Scripture for further guidance & prayer:
James 1:5, James 3:17
Jeremiah 29:11
Joshua 1:9 b
Proverbs 3:5-6
Ephesians 3:20-21
Philippians 4:4-8
*HUGE Thanks to Tapestry for providing these Questions
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